Ten Things from Today

Ten things... just ten of the great things God is doing in our lives here today.  Just like the song, "It will surprise you what the Lord has done... And you will keep singing as the day goes by... Help and comfort give you 'till your journey's end."  How neat is it that just in recognizing what He's done, we feel more blessed? 

Ten things I'm thankful to God for today...
  • I was blessed with some "alone time" in the metro this morning and was able to do some extra Bible reading.  Those "extra" minutes I've begun to cherish.
  • A great kick-off for the cooking class we're starting every first Saturday.  It was a great time of fellowship and fun together, not to mention a great time to get to know those we've recently come into contact with. 
  • I saw my mom this morning... she's here still and we're so blessed by that.  She worked alongside us this morning.
  • I have a husband who is very capable and willing to watch our son while I go out!
  • We're blessed with great AIMers who have plugged in and really begun developing relationships with people here.  Today I saw God working specifically through Jordan and EJ.
  • A joy to watch David, Katie, Brandon, EJ, and Jordan kick the rugby ball around.  It's great to have "hang out" times together and it was pure joy for me to see them laughing at themselves and one another!
  • My son is well.  He's had a fever for most of this week and it is finally gone, so I'm very thankful for that. But, I'm also thankful he doesn't get sick that often, this really was a rare occurrence.  I don't thank God enough for a healthy child.
  • I appreciate the love and attention given to Caleb.  Every time I see someone loving him, paying attention to him, laughing with him, playing with him, grabbing him out of a room he's not supposed to be in... it means so much to me.  I understand in a very minute way how God feels when people serve and love His kids.
  • I was encouraged by the study I had with a few ladies tonight over Proverbs 31.  It's been a great study through the whole book and this chapter was a good way to end it.  Looking forward to studying Jesus' and God's names/characteristics starting this next week.  Thank you, God, for your Word!
  • I married a man who is an excellent carpenter and handy around the house.  Tonight he went over to the AIM girl's apartment to fix outlets and curtains after our English group.  What a servant, what an example to me. 
And now... it's time to go to bed.  Thank you, Father, for a great day laced with your blessings!

Ten Things About Being Pregnant

I'm now beginning my eighth month of pregnancy and it's about time I gave thanks on this blog for the wonderful experience I've had being pregnant.  It has been a journey, filled with ups and downs just like any journey, but I have so much to be thankful for.  My first 12 weeks were difficult.  Not only was I battling morning sickness, but David and I were both somewhat worried about the baby.  We had miscarried after 11 weeks with our first which gave us a completely new perspective with our second baby.  The biggest lesson we learned was not to take any day for granted: we were given a gift and we don't know how long we'll be able to have that gift, so we would be thankful for every day. 

So, here are ten blessings that have come with this gift... soon to be Caleb James Nelson:

  • My belly - it sticks out like a basketball and is being stretched tremendously, but it's heaps of fun!  I continually forget how big I am and bump into people and things constantly, but I still love it.  
  • The kicks and punches - I love feeling Caleb move around.  We were blessed to feel him move early - his movements were so strong we could both feel him at 17 weeks!  Since then, they've just gotten stronger.  :)
  • Having a breezy second trimester.  I was a little more tired than normal, but I felt great and was able to do so much! 
  • Although I've mentioned numerous times the not-so-fun "advice" and "rules" I have learned from being pregnant in Ukraine, I've also enjoyed some special treatment - people give up their seats for me on the metro, I get asked all the time how I'm doing, I don't have to move out of the way when crowds are coming (they part for me), they are more patient with me at stores (which especially comes in handy when I don't know the right words!), etc.
  • Being able to share my baby's movements with others.  Ukraine is not like America where random strangers come up and feel your belly, which I'm thankful for.  But, on the other hand, I've been able to offer a chance for our friends and family here to feel the baby moving around and it's so neat to see them light up and appreciate his movements almost as much as David and I do!  
  • Hiccups!  Every time he has the hiccups, I love it.  I sure hope he doesn't mind them, because they give me so much joy.  Don't ask me why, but it's fascinati ng to me that my baby can have hiccups in my belly! 
  • Being blessed by friends with clothes to wear.  I had a couple friends from home send me either new stuff or their own pregnancy clothes which was such a huge help.  My mom also brought me a few new outfits!  With the fast weight gain that comes with pregnancy, I've had needs and I'm thankful for God providing through others to help me meet those needs!
  • The adventures we've been through with doctors.  It hasn't always been easy trying to communicate; in fact, I've probably been more frustrated with it than I should have been.  But, God was in control the whole time and answered our prayers.  I've been learning (and still am learning) to just let him work and not try to take charge.
  • Finally being able to come up with a name.  It was hard - trying to get a name that would work in three different cultures (America, New Zealand, and Ukraine) and one that we liked.  I'm so glad we were finally able to find one... and before the baby was born !
  • And last, but not least, being molded once again.  When I got married to David I knew I couldn't be the wife I needed to be for him.  It was up to God to re-shape me and to help me in my weaknesses.  Four years later, I am still relying on His help.  Now that I'm pregnant, I'm asking for more help.  :)  I know I don't have what it takes to be the godly mother my son needs, but I know He will help me through it.  I'm thankful God is molding me and He is helping me now and will continue to help me be the mom Caleb needs me to be.  
Here's the latest picture of David, Caleb, and I.  Can't wait to hold this baby in my hands rather than in my belly (well, actually I can wait - he needs to stay in there at least 7 more weeks!!) 

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My Ten Things

This list is well overdue... well overdue.  I really need to start getting into the habit of doing these more frequently as it always helps me look at the bright side of things, especially in a gray winter-y time of year!

This week I am thankful for:

1. Soft toliet paper.  After using the traditional Ukrainian stuff (similar to crepe paper) for a little over a day while being pregnant with a very active bladder, so I'm very thankful to have the soft stuff back in my life!  :)

2. A wonderful evening with our friends Yakov and Alyona.  They had us over to eat here on Monday night and we had a great time together!

3. Feeling better!  That's right, my all day sickness is calming down and I'm able to function again... yay!!!

4. Banana bread and bran muffins - since I felt bad I wasn't able to make many healthy snacks and I finally did this last weekend. They've been the perfect substitute for the snacks I was craving, but couldn't find here.

5. David's class. He's teaching this week at UBI on New Testament Leadership and I'm really enjoying sitting in on it.

6. Emails and notes we've received this last week from friends and family in response to our newsletter and our news of the baby.  It's always so encouraging to hear from those we love, makes the distance not quite so large.

7. God's Word.  I know, we're all thankful for it, aren't we?  But, there have been some tough times for me this last month and I felt like every time I was picking up God's Word He was speaking directly to me.  There are so many things I continually need to strive toward and I'm so thankful for the directions God has given us through His Word! 

8. The Sun.  It's winter here (still) and the sun doesn't shine every day.  However when it does shine, it really does brighten the day and my mood!  In talking to Lucy the other week, she told me when the sun came out she grabbed her boys and they played on the balcony so they could get some good sun exposure.  Isn't it great that God made such a pick-me-up so big for us?  (It's shining this morning here in Donetsk, by the way!)

9. Staying safe.  It's the time of year where we're hovering around freezing which means it melts and then re-freezes a lot, creating more ice on the ground and falling snow and icicles.  It's quite dangerous to walk around!  We parked our car near our apartment building and the next day we had three (THREE) dents in it from falling ice and yes... the ice brought down a brick as well.  When the buildings here are 5 stories high, the sidewalk really doesn't have a safe place to walk, plus you're dodging puddles and ice patches.  I'm really thankful we haven't been hurt physically!

10. My husband.  He has gone above and beyond these last few months as I've been sick.  I barely cooked, never did dishes, and hardly house cleaned.  He picked up the slack and really took care of me.  I'm glad I'm feeling better now so I can start returning some of those favors, but really... he's such a blessing to me!!

Ok, there is my ten for this last week or so.  What are you thankful for?


My Ten Things... around Thanksgiving Week

Happy Thanksgiving!  I hope your thanksgiving was great, wherever you were.  We had such a nice time together as a team and with a few friends we know here in Kharkov.  And you just can't beat the food at thanksgiving, can you?  Here's my list for this week, but this time it's a list of things I'm thankful for in Kharkov, things I've grown to love and appreciate about this city over this last year:

In Kharkov I'm thankful for

1. A place to work alongside other Christians to reach those living here or passing through.  I'm thankful to be in this city, working for our Lord to share His love and good news to those who need to know it!

2. Friendly people!  For the most part, almost everyone we meet is kind to us, especially patient with our attempts to speak Russian.

3. The market.  I love going every week to buy my meats, spices, honey, and produce.  We have slowly been establishing relationships with certain locals there and I love that.  I know as winter progresses, the produce will diminish, but I'm so thankful for all that we had to choose from this summer!

4. The statues and historical buildings.  In Lubbock and Tauranga, there wasn't a whole lot of history to see, but here there is so much to discover and the more we learn about what this city has experienced, the more we understand the people of Kharkov better. 

5. The French Bakery.  I absolutely love their pastries and bread and am so spoiled by them!!!  (Come visit, you can see for yourself what I'm talking about!)

6. Its size.  Kharkov is a city of about 2 million people which means there are always people on the streets and there are many things to do and places to shop. 

7. Small city feel.  It may be a big city that offers a lot, but it doesn't ever feel too impersonal.  I am thankful for that because we're here to engage with people, not disappear among the crowds.

8.. The public transportation, especially the metro.  It was a lifesaver for us when we didn't have a car.  But even now, I ride the metro rather than driving by myself just because I like it.  It's very easy to get around this city via public transportation. 

9. The fact that there are playgrounds and parks everywhere.  I look forward to the day I can take our kids to the parks here.  It's custom to take your kids outside to play every day and for adults to have time outside in the fresh air which I think is wonderful. 

10. Changing Weather.  We have all four seasons here and I enjoy experiencing all of them: the beautiful leaves of autumn, the snow in the winter, the fresh buds and flowers in the spring, and the hot sun in the summer!

What's the thing you love most about where you are now?


Sour Cream Coffee Cake

 

I made it this week in time for Love to Cook Thursdays! (Check it out on Kipi's blog here.)  This week is a recipe that I received from a good friend in Phoenix, AZ.  She gave me this recipe just over a year ago, and it's a hit.  I love making it and have given out the recipe numerous times.  I guarantee you'll love it too!

My thoughts about this recipe:
super yummy, easy to make, kid friendly, and a way to impress your guests!

Sour Cream Coffee Cake

Ingredients:
1/2 cup butter
1 cup sugar
2 eggs
2 cups flour
1 tsp. soda
1/2 tsp. salt
1 cup sour cream
1 tsp. vanilla

 Ingredients for Topping:
1/3 cup brown sugar
1/4 cup sugar
1 tsp. cinnamon
1 c. chopped nuts (optional)

Directions:
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butter and sugar with a mixer until fluffy.  Mix together flour, sugar, soda, and salt.  Add dry ingredients alternately with sour cream and vanilla.   Mix well.  Pour 1/2 batter into greased/floured baking dish (you can use either a bread pan or a 11x8), top with 1/2 topping mixture.  Add remaining batter and then top that with the remaining topping mixture.  Bake at 325*F for 40-45 min. 

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My Ten Things

Happy Halloween!  This week I am thankful for:

1. The Trick-or-Treaters who showed up at our door tonight!  Even though only two of the four boys had their costumes on, it was still fun and I'm glad our house can be their stop to get goodies!

2. Our Halloween party last night at the McDougles.  It was a lot of fun for everyone who was there!  I especially loved carving pumpkins with our friends here in Ukraine... for most of them it was their first time!

3. The colors of fall.  I am absolutely loving all the falling leaves and pretty colors everywhere! 

4. Pumpkins. We can only get pumpkin when it's in season, so we've been waiting for about a year now and it's here!  So, all the pumpkin dishes are being prepared and we're freezing some to have for Thanksgiving and Christmas time.  I also like that the pumpkins here are different than in the states.  I don't prefer one or the other, but it's fun to see the "gourd-like" and sometimes green pumpkins here, it gives them character!

5. Our visit with David's mum these last two weeks.  It's been heaps of fun having her here and being able to show her Ukraine.

6. Being able to see my first Russian ballet last week!  What a neat experience and fun night we had. 

7. Friends here and back home (home includes many places).  I'm very blessed to have so many wonderful people in my life!!

8. The Bible study we started this week.  Yes, it's scarey for me too, and quite intiimidating because it's all in Russian, but I'm so excited to see how God is working in this and it's just the beginning of some wonderful things that are yet to come in our time here!!

9. The blessing of having a car.  There have been many times I've been thankful I didn't have to walk this week, especially when we bought all the pumpkins for the Halloween party!!

10. Good landlords who have warmed up to us.  It's funny to look back and remember that they almost didn't let us rent this apartment because we are missionaries.  We only see them once/month, but our relationship with them has grown in this last year and they are talking so much more to us and acting like they enjoy visiting (besides just picking up rent!)!

What are you thankful for this week?


My Ten Things This Week

Well, every week around Thursday (the day I'm now trying to post a recipe of some sort on this blog) or Saturday (the night David and I focus our prayer on thanksgivings), I remember that Tuesday passed me by and I forgot to post my "Ten Things Tuesday" that I started on facebook. 

Today I realized I had once again missed Tuesday, but this time I determined that I'd still get it done.  I suppose I had my mind made up that if I missed Tuesday, I missed the whole week.  That's just silly.  So... my list is no longer going to be called Ten Things Tuesday, but rather My Ten Things This Week.  Hope you enjoy.  If you have time, post a comment with something you're thankful with as well! 

This week I'm thankful for:
1. Our time last week with the students and staff at the Ukrainian Bible Institute (UBI).  We had such a wonderful time getting to know them better!
2. The opportunities that David and Dougle had to teach at UBI this last week and this week.  I know they are a great blessing to the students and I know they are benefiting from the time there as well.
3. The time Lucy and I are having together this week with Canaan and Max. It's hard being away from our hubbys, but I'm so thankful we can keep each other company!
4. The fact that my Grandma Janie is doing better.  She's still in the hospital and they are still trying to find out more information, but she's more comfortable, which I'm so thankful for. 
5. The Hindmans getting to vacation in Italy this week.  I know this is a break they need and will enjoy.  Earlier we didn't think they'd be able to get their visa invitations before they left, so that would have meant they would have had to leave the country within 48 hours of coming home from their trip.  But, things worked out and all seems to be fine now... we're thankful for that answered prayer!
6. Snacks and treats we can make and find here.  I made chocolate peanut butter and cream cheese brownies this week for some company we had over and they are good!  Sometimes the little things have to be mentioned.  :)
7.  My nephew Max's smile.  It's all gum and huge... everytime you look at him and smile. He gives freely and for that I'm very grateful!!
8. Chats with my sister.  Last night we stayed up (too late) talking about life here in Ukraine.  It's so nice to have a good friend here who understands, plus one who is family. 
9. Family and friends who are praying with us-- on a regular basis.  I barely put up a request on facebook before I get several responses from friends and family praying with us.  Not to mention our prayer team who prays with us every week.
10.  The prayers of those at Sunset.  They are spending 40 days in prayer leading up to their mission's Sunday and this week they are focusing their prayers on Ukraine and our team here.  We have such wonderful partners working with us as we all reach out to the people in Ukraine. 

Homemade Flour Tortillas

This week David and I are in Donetsk, Ukraine with my sister and her family.  David is teaching Fundamental Theology at the Ukrainian Bible Institute here this week and next.  During our time here, we wanted to get to know the students and staff, and what better way to win their affection than to cook for them?  Lucy and I decided to cook Tex-Mex for them.  Finding ingredients for Tex-Mex can be hard in Ukraine.  In fact, most of the time we have to make everything from scratch—the tortillas, the seasoning, the salsa, etc.  For most of you, it’s easy enough to run to Rosas or the grocery store and pick up semi-fresh tortillas.  I miss those days.  :) But, in case you just want the extra challenge of making it from scratch, here’s how to do it. This recipe is compliments of Linda Merritt  in Hart, Texas.

Homemade Flour Tortillas

My thoughts about this recipe:
tasty, kid and culture friendly, but time consuming.

Ingredients:

4 ½ cups flour
2 teaspoons baking powder
1 ½ teaspoon salt
½ cup butter (softened is easiest)
1 ¼ cups water

Directions:

Mix together the dry ingredients, then cut in butter with a fork or wire whisk.  The mixture will be lumpy with pea-size pieces of the butter.  Add the water and knead it just a bit.  Next, separate the dough into balls.  (I usually make about 16 balls for burrito size tortillas, but you can make them smaller if you want.)  Let the balls sit for about 15 minutes.  Using a rolling pin, roll the balls out until they are thin on a lightly-floured surface.  (If you’re using a tortilla press, it’s best to press the tortilla in the press for a while… the longer you hold it pressed, the thinner they become.)    

Next cook the tortilla in a med-hot frying pan.  Do not add oil to the pan, just let the heat cook it.  When the tortilla becomes puffy, flip it to cook the other side (see picture).  Sometimes the flour collects in the pan and burns, leaving black flour on your tortillas.  If that happens, just use a paper towel to get rid of the burnt flour in the pan.  I try to pat the tortillas before putting them in the pan to minimize the amount of flour on them.

Since we make tortillas a lot here, Lucy and Dougle bought us all tortilla presses and these nifty tortilla warmers from the States.  We’re still working the kinks out of the tortilla presses, but the tortilla pouches are amazing.  Here is a website that sells them, but they were able to buy them in a local store as well: http://www.latortillaloca.com/tortilla_warmers.htm  They keep the tortillas warm for a really long time and you can microwave the tortillas in the pouch to reheat.  I highly recommend the tortilla pouch!


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Love to Cook Thursday - Lemon Chicken Pasta Toss

A friend of mine, Kipi, started something on her blog (www.kipiward.com) called Love to Cook Thursdays.  She challenged us to cook up something special on Thursday nights and post about it.  Of course, Thursdays aren't always the best nights for me to spend a lot of time cooking, but tonight I made it happen.  I wanted to cook a new dish and use the ingredients I had on hand, so I started flipping through cookbooks and found Lemon Chicken Pasta Toss in my Better Homes and Gardens New Cookbook (p. 419).  The meal was a hit in our house, so here's the recipe and don't forget to check out the pictures of it at the bottom: 

My thoughts after cooking it:
fairly quick (less than an hour), easy, basic ingredients, great taste, and kid friendly (my nephew approved!)

Lemon Chicken Pasta Toss
2 cups dried multigrain penne
12 oz. skinless, boneless, chicken breast halves, cut into 1 in pieces
2 tablespoons flour
2 tablespoons olive oil
1/2 c. finely chopped shallot
2 cloves garlic, minced
3/4 c. chicken broth
3 tablespoons lemon juice
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon black pepper
3 tablespoons capers, drained
3 tablespoons snipped fresh Italian parsley
Freshly grated Parmesan Cheese (optional)

My Alterations: I used regular penne because we can't get multigrain here, I also used a small regular onion instead of shallots, omitted the capers, substituted the fresh parsley for fresh basil (and yes, our fresh basil here is purple), and added more salt and pepper. 

Directions:
Cook pasta according to package directions, drain.  Return pasta to hot saucepan; cover and keep warm. I cooked the pasta after I had cooked the chicken to keep it a little more fresh.

Meanwhile, in a bowl toss together chicken and flour until chicken is lightly coated.  (I cut my chicken into bite size pieces and David thought it would be better in larger chunks, so follow the directions and cut in 1" chunks.)  In a large skillet cook and stir chicken in 1 tablespoon of the oil over med-high heat for 6-8 minutes or until chicken is cooked through.  Remove chicken from pan, set aside.

Reduce heat to medium.  Add remaining oil to skillet and add the shallot and garlic.  Cook and stir about 1 minute until tender.  (I cooked it about 2-3 minutes.)  Stir in broth, lemon juice, salt, and pepper.  Cook, uncovered for about 2-3 minutes or until reduced to about 2/3 cup.  Stir in chicken, capers, and parsley; heat through.

Toss pasta with chicken mixture.  If desired, serve with Parmesan cheese.  I recommend adding the cheese!



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